Pleasant Words are a Honeycomb
As a mother it is my responsibility to instruct my children. As a homeschooling mother I also instruct them in their educational studies. This is not always a pleasant task. It is often easier to point out the errors and faults. This is something that of course must be done. If one does not see the error or fault how are they to see a need for correction? However, if all we do is point out areas that need correction our children will become discouraged and begin to resent or even reject our instruction. Parents must also point out those things which are done well and praise them. The things we choose to praise often reflect the things that we wish our children to see as most important. We praise our children and tell them how proud we are for times when they exercise patience, show kindness, act selflessly, share, care for others, are obedient, and make wise decisions. We will also say good job on a well completed school assignment. Have you been an encouragement to your children today? If not, look and find an area in which to say “well done”.
Proverbs 16:23-24 A wise man’s heart guides his mouth, and his lips promote instruction. Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.
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October 25th, 2007 at 7:53 pm
Such an important and easy thing to remember… encourage your children. I hope parents take this to heart… a little encouragement goes a long way.
Have a great day.
Valerie
October 25th, 2007 at 8:05 pm
it really is a simple concept which makes you wonder why it is so hard to remember and implement at times!
October 26th, 2007 at 6:43 am
Very true. Encouragement tells them what you want and a reason to work for it.
October 26th, 2007 at 7:56 am
Dana-that is a great point! Thank you for adding to this! Encouragement is a great motivator and does let them know what we are looking for from them.